tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post2554540954167620280..comments2023-10-23T14:21:09.202+01:00Comments on W1Mum: Is there a right time to have a baby?westendmumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502717564872941113noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-32560064688226937492009-11-19T14:32:02.257+00:002009-11-19T14:32:02.257+00:00this is the writer I have missed. Selfish tears in...this is the writer I have missed. Selfish tears in the loo of a friend maybe lost.Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09202778387966005139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-84400339045268997702009-11-12T16:56:14.411+00:002009-11-12T16:56:14.411+00:00Thank you all so much for you lovely comments.
WEM...Thank you all so much for you lovely comments.<br />WEM xxwestendmumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15502717564872941113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-6146964737876356172009-11-11T13:41:17.890+00:002009-11-11T13:41:17.890+00:00What a very thoughtful well written piece! WOW. I&...What a very thoughtful well written piece! WOW. I'm very moved by it indeed. I think you have to follow your instinsts with everything including your relationship with the GR, spooning is a very good way to start! xxxxeverybodysaysdonthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02373267213741809399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-37705660147864847912009-11-11T04:22:45.453+00:002009-11-11T04:22:45.453+00:00Yes, a wonderful post! Like fabhat, I have bonus s...Yes, a wonderful post! Like fabhat, I have bonus self-regarding reasons why I should enjoy it right at the moment -- but it's so lovely and honest that I certainly don't need any extra inducement.redfoxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09291769926001144298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-56202241437888046182009-11-10T18:51:41.786+00:002009-11-10T18:51:41.786+00:00That is a very good thing to read right now. With...That is a very good thing to read right now. With only 2 months to go it is now feeling very real that this bumpy wriggly thing is going to become a real baby. I spent the day explaining how my business works to the person who will babysit it for me while I go off and have the sprog. It was a bit like having to show someone your knicker drawer, including the really horrible ones that you only wear when desperate. Anyway - I've sort of been hoping that I can have both a baby and a sort of normal life as well, so this post is inspiring, reassuring and perfectly timed (selfishly for me) so thank you.fabhatnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-46687984516941454362009-11-10T18:47:23.616+00:002009-11-10T18:47:23.616+00:00I also found that one of the most wonderful posts!...I also found that one of the most wonderful posts!Style At Every Agehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08651040515126111051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-77178604036411106762009-11-10T15:04:57.774+00:002009-11-10T15:04:57.774+00:00There is an award for you at mine.There is an award for you at mine.Chic Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01803588856685163353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-49019617912712906252009-11-10T14:05:52.374+00:002009-11-10T14:05:52.374+00:00What a moving piece, so honest and thought provoki...What a moving piece, so honest and thought provoking. <br />It's normal for relationships to change, it's not easy. You should focus on all that time you did get together alone and all the exciting things you're going to share with your child together. <br />If I'm honest although I loved (and I thought husband did) having babies and children we were also always making plans for the things we;'d do when the children were grown up. <br />Take care. xChic Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01803588856685163353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-43452644588543885082009-11-10T11:49:55.776+00:002009-11-10T11:49:55.776+00:00This is a wonderful post. Incredibly honest and fu...This is a wonderful post. Incredibly honest and full of interesting thoughts and emotions. Thank-you for sharing it. <br /><br />There's a lot more I'd like to say somehow, but can't seem to find the words, but hopefully things will get back on track with the GR. I think that must be one of the hardest parts of having a baby, especially having been together for so long and used to a certain way of life. If J and I have babies we will have been together for probably 10 or so years before we do have them. Which is a long time to suddenly then have to share our life with someone else. But I guess it all works out somehow. Especially if you have got support from friends and family and bloggers :)Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06034963362014160492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-13545811171442782012009-11-10T10:14:13.726+00:002009-11-10T10:14:13.726+00:00This is very moving - open and honest. I didn'...This is very moving - open and honest. I didn't meet Mr TNMA till I was 40 and now we're a bit older than that (er hem!) and passed it when it comes to childbirth. Which feels like such a shame - but I'm of that generation of women who (like yourself) got on with careers - and partying - in our thirties, and thought that kids would come along later. I try not to dwell on it too much, which may or may not be a good thing, but you just don't know when/ if, you're going to meet the right person - and I was fortunate enough to meet the very lovely Mr TNMA.<br /> <br />PS I have friends with young kids so even though I am childless, I fully understand your predicamentThat's Not My Agehttp://www.thatsnotmyage.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3937241658966177529.post-43364208350852670482009-11-10T09:36:22.821+00:002009-11-10T09:36:22.821+00:00This is a wonderful post that I can relate to on s...This is a wonderful post that I can relate to on so many levels despite the fact I fell pregnant at 20.<br /><br />Relationships are hard work at the best of times and children certinly make it harder. I have to remind myself to hug my boyfriend at the moment. <br /><br />xxxloveaudreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15956831760930699839noreply@blogger.com